
Most of my writings are often inspired by the recognition of subtle signals and hidden truths that guide us through the complexities of life. But that doesn't make me a seasoned philosopher. Â
The closest I could get to explaining why is that I am in a period where I need to make an important life decision which could determine the next decade of my life.Â
In this pivotal period, I have enjoyed the invaluable suggestions of true friends who have guided and supported me. They offer me perspectives to consider, provide emotional support when I falter, and remind me of my strengths and values.Â
Through their unwavering presence, I am expected to find the clarity and courage to navigate my paths. However, an unforeseen problem inspired this article, and I went deep into my soul to solve it.Â
With sincere humility, I resonate with Carol Burnett's, 'Only I can change my life. No one can do it for me.'Â In that case, the best places to search for answers are usually inward and in the past.Â
Which is a place of cues (a signal, hint, or information that prompts or guides behaviour, action, or understanding.) and clues (a piece of information or evidence that helps to solve a problem, answer a question, or unravel a mystery).Â
We often think we seek adventures and thrive in changes, challenges, and uncertainties, but on the other hand, we are only as comfortable with them as we are with the cues and clues they present us from the subconscious familiarity of the past.Â
Cues and clues are everywhere - in systems, nature, and even the cosmos. I pay attention to cues and clues when I listen to people and observe situations.Â
When we read job descriptions, regardless of how similar they are to what we have done previously, what helps us to decide are the subconscious cues and clues our gut feelings reveal about the job.Â
There is an example of a petite famous microbiologist whose inspiration (or we can call it cues) to pursue science was to make herself bigger. Standing at just 4'11", Dr. Colwell is renowned for her pioneering research in microbiology, particularly her work on cholera and other waterborne diseases.Â
Despite her small stature, her aspiration to make a significant impact in the scientific community drove her to pursue a career in science. Her work has profoundly influenced public health and environmental microbiology, demonstrating how her desire to "make herself bigger" through her contributions to science has come to fruition.
We also unknowingly look for cues and clues in others while seeking friendship connections or romantic partners. These cues and clues exceed mere physiological attractions. This is why people could fall in love with a twin and choose to be with them even if offered their identical.
A high mastery of cues and clues can help attract the best made for us.Â
On a personal level, we also exhibit cues and clues which attract or distract others and people from us. Yesterday, I wrote an article about the harsh reality that success is only sometimes guaranteed despite our best efforts and how external factors beyond our control can influence the outcome.
Perhaps the universe also respects cues and clues when blessing us with the good things in life. We are influenced by priming and subtle cues.Â
Therefore, the mind should be trained to identify patterns and make unexpected links to things from inward and past cues and clues. Mastering how to read cues and identify clues can help rekindle the fire to live a life of purpose and passion.Â
Many thanks for reading my perspective and giving feedback.
My fervent wish is for the personal growth of everyone and the success of all young professionals who put their hearts and souls into finding their purpose in life.
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I find this piece very insightful.
In cues and clues we can guarantee what works and what doesn’t.